Dear Ma,

I must say that you are a blessing to our generation, and I would love to share some things with you, ma. I have been having issues with the relationships I have had. All they want from me is sex. I never got love from my parents, and I depended on my partners for love and affection. I do everything to make them stay, but I realised they were just after my body ma. My previous relationship was worse.  Each time I come across your post, there is this urge to speak to you about it. I feel guilty. I tried abstaining from sex for some time, and things were good until I began to have this urge again, then I went back. I feel so guilty, Mum. I am going to be 30 years old, but no serious relationship yet. All the men just want to have sex with me. I never grew up knowing my mother, and was ill-treated by my stepmother.

I am tired, Mum, I need help, ma. I had a dream this previous week to speak to you, ma. I was told to speak to you, and that you would guide me. Please help me, ma.

Ranti

My dear Ranti and everyone in her shoes,

I tell you the world has become so disturbingly depraved that it would only take God pairing up a virtuous lady with a guy who’s equally sexually pure, as sex has now become what teenagers mess around with, and so most guys can’t imagine you wanting to wait till your wedding night. It is what it is, and if you’re not careful, you’ll end up sleeping with 20 or more men before you know it, and you still won’t find fulfilment or ever settle down in marriage, depending on your circumstances! THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS MATTER! I understand the fact that your foundation never gave you the much-needed guidance and love which makes you look for it in your partners and more so 30 is the “most marriageable” age, however, as I mentioned earlier, if you’re not careful, you may just end up having your heart broken from multiple relationships while expecting one of these guys to marry you. Also, jumping from one relationship to another would make you very unstable emotionally as you’d be smarting from heartbreaks all the time, and this will definitely stall your self-development from lack of concentration.

I’d counsel you to face God squarely, surrender your flesh and go for a couple of deliverance sessions to restart your life! Yes! You’d be pleasantly surprised that you’ll discover your original self and by the time your eyes are opened in the spirit for you to see the wonder that you are while abstaining from sex, the world suddenly becomes a new place full of warmth, love and open doors as you’ll start meeting the right set of people who would give you more love than you could ever imagine and make your life worth living. Also, sexual purity gives you unusual spiritual energy such that everything you lay your hands upon turns to gold!  And this is as a result of the presence of God in you! I must not fail to mention that you may even be dealing with deep-seated attacks that are programmed to stop you from shining or manifesting the glory of God, and one of the tools the devil uses to ensure this happens is ungodly sex. Sexual purity shields you from satanic attacks because you’re armed with the presence of God. You never can tell if someone who maltreated you has also diabolically attacked you/your marriage over time. So my dear, now is the time to take charge of your life using sexual purity as a weapon and get the very best out of life! The rewards are too numerous to mention, and guess what, you can actually attract the precise type of man you’d like to spend the rest of your life with. I wish you luck as you embark on this journey. God bless you!

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